Nica came up to me and asked,
“What did you say to her? You must have said something.”
She was nagging me to find out if I did really said something stupid to her. I was really offended at the fact that she actually believed whatever nonsense this nut job was accusing me of. Nica already knew damn well what kind of women I don’t trust, so I didn’t understand why she even thought that I would engage in such conversation. I wished that Nica was able to see who I used to work with in other places. Out of all those women who I’ve worked with in the past, why would I choose this nut job to engage in such conversation at work after 4 or 5 years later in the company out of nowhere? I really wished she was able to see other women I have worked with in my previous location. They would be extremely offended by me that I choose this nut job over them to engage in such conversation. Nica knew I was there to play a role in Golden Child. I was not there to play a role in Boomerang or Coming to America. However, based on where this was going, it looked like it was turning into Dr.Doolittle and the animal circus.
I guess my problem was that I was being way too nice to this nut job by listening and answering her stupid questions. Since she was a chatterbox who couldn’t stop talking about every drama in the building and all kinds of shit, I naturally thought she was just being herself as usual. How does it make sense that I would even think about having any kind of intimate relationship with a women with like 9 or 10 kids? Even if she didn’t have a huband who was 30 or 40 years older than her, does it make sense I would even think or talk in such way? I had no interest in building and managing another Wu Tang Clan or a family little league team. I was not a Captain Save Em. I really wished that every women who have worked with me in my previous location got a chance to see this nut job character in real life and give me one good reason why I would engage in such conversation with this nut job over any one of them if I was a person who would actually talk in such way at work with my coworkers.
I was dumbfounded and shocked to a certain degree. In the beginning, I almost lost it. I had no clue what this nut job was thinking or cooking up under her sleeves due to whatever happening in her life and family, but I was right about one thing all along. Transferring to another location was the answer and I was way too late to the train thanks to whoever involved.
I even made a trip down to Texas to make my moves trying my best to get out of that Puff Daddy and the Family situation. I visited a coworker who used to work directly under Fat Princess and eventually transferred down to Texas with his family. His wife also worked at the same company. While we didn’t talk to each other about our working situations under two brand new hires leadership, I knew he was also somewhat in the same situation as I was. He probably had to do more than just focusing on his main job. He was smart enough to transfer out of my location in time and he was doing great down in Texas. That was the story with this location for many good employees with higher volume experiences from other markets. They got out eventually knowing that there was no reason for them to stay there.
It was right after when the hurricane swept through the city, so I was able to see some debris and damages. It didn’t look too bad overall. My purpose of trip to Texas was to scout my potential next location within the corporation and also visit an oil tanker ship facility as my back up plan to find out more information in case I was not able to transfer out of my location.
Thanks to my coworker’s gracious and generous hospitality, I stayed with his family at his home for a night. I was happy for him and his family to be in a better environment and situation. I got to see the location my coworker was working in Texas and I felt good about living and working down there. Then my coworker gave me a lift to the oil tanker facility. It sounded like a good opportunity financially. However, due to my previous experience of working on a ship in the navy, I knew it was going to be extremely tough to work in an oil tanker in the Gulf. It was around November and I was sweating a little bit just standing outside.


